Why do they act like this twards me?

some ppl r just jerks lol & i totally understand where your coming 4rm cause i couldn't leave my kid with a stranger either so don't feel bad k ur being the mom that u should b however idk wut u can actually do in your situation umm hmm maybe u can get to know some of the day care providers on a more personal level you know without even letting them know that you are looking for someone to watch ur kids so that you can see what they're really about....but uh other than that i really don't know what else u can do bout it but don't beat your self up if your doing all you can to protect your kids there is nothing wrong with your opinion & your so right y won't she suggest to baby sit ugh some family can b so......just ugh lol but anyway good luck in your situation & i hope i helped alittle bit =)